You know when a friend gets into a relationship...then falls off the face of the planet, and you're sitting at home thinking 'why does this always seems to happen?' I believe it is a girl complex that we get slightly obsessed with boys.
After losing forty pounds, I am experiencing for the first time some male attention. Now, as a single gal and loving it, boys do not mix well into the equation. But I do love the attention and flirting, so I can get slightly distracted. Then all of a sudden I have spent an entire weekend at home waiting or hoping that a guy I am talking to will want to hang out. The girl complex takes over, and I become obsessed about the slightest chance to hang out with a boy. I waste an entire weekend of my life for nothing.
What do boys do? They do whatever they want, and hang out with a girl if they happen to have time. While a girl sits around waiting, boys live. I've decided that from now on I need to adopt the boy complex - do what I want, and if things happen to work out - that's great, otherwise who cares.
I am single. I am happy. No boy should ever distract me from living my life to the fullest. There are always more fish in the sea, and if one boy doesn't follow through, there is always another. And as a single gal, I can wait!
So here is to the boy complex. This week I have something going on every night and I have no time for any distractions. But my weekend is free...so maybe I have sometime for a fun distraction then. Guess I will just have to see if any distraction (boy) steps up to the plate...
After losing forty pounds, I am experiencing for the first time some male attention. Now, as a single gal and loving it, boys do not mix well into the equation. But I do love the attention and flirting, so I can get slightly distracted. Then all of a sudden I have spent an entire weekend at home waiting or hoping that a guy I am talking to will want to hang out. The girl complex takes over, and I become obsessed about the slightest chance to hang out with a boy. I waste an entire weekend of my life for nothing.
What do boys do? They do whatever they want, and hang out with a girl if they happen to have time. While a girl sits around waiting, boys live. I've decided that from now on I need to adopt the boy complex - do what I want, and if things happen to work out - that's great, otherwise who cares.
I am single. I am happy. No boy should ever distract me from living my life to the fullest. There are always more fish in the sea, and if one boy doesn't follow through, there is always another. And as a single gal, I can wait!
So here is to the boy complex. This week I have something going on every night and I have no time for any distractions. But my weekend is free...so maybe I have sometime for a fun distraction then. Guess I will just have to see if any distraction (boy) steps up to the plate...
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